This isn’t a lecture — it’s a conversation. Scroll down to add YOUR energy to it. I wanted to FEEL loved. My favorite movie line is in The Breakup, “I want you to WANT to do the dishes.” I THOUGHT I wanted someone to understand me, so I overexplained myself and why I felt how I felt. But I didn’t. What I wanted Is for someone to WANT to understand me. I found that person who CLAIMS TO want that more than anything. What he actually wants is to understand himself and his own en